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What To Do When You’re At A Dead End

Posted on August 31, 2015May 26, 2025 by Paul

I lost my cable in my house. Internet was gone. I went to McDonald's for a month and sat there all day using theirs.

After 4 weeks of piecemeal work, enough to eat everyday but not enough to pay the bills, they shut off my water. I went to McDonald's in the morning and to another place that had a swimming pool, which I used as a bath, in the afternoon.

After 6 weeks of no internet and 2 weeks of no water they turned the electric off in the home.

No cable, no water, no electric. A dark empty house is what I came home to every night.

There was no hope but I kept hoping anyhow. Maybe I'll get a good side job. Maybe I'll get a call from a friend who will send me money. Maybe I'll get a lottery ticket that wins. Maybe my friends will offer me a job.

I stayed calm through it all - like a duck on the water. My friends didn't know the extent of how bad my life was. I wasn't crying, whining, saying woe is me. There were some private moments of panic. Sleepless nights.

Seven days later I caved in. Called a friend, "hey, you don't know what's happening, but I need a couch to stay on" ... two weeks passed and I lost the house altogether.

Then things started to get better. I started getting more work. And then more work. I was asked to come on board a business full time. They paid well. I found a room to rent from someone so I didn't have to sleep on the couch in the middle of the living room of a one bedroom apartment. Things were going really good. Stabilizing.

Then after only 6 months had passed I was told by the owners of that business that they weren't going to use me anymore. They couldn't get along. Didn't have a vision. Didn't know what to do. Didn't know what they wanted to do. The vision I sold them, the one where they take over the world, and all agree to work together for the common good of doing just that, fell apart. This owner wanted this, the other that. The dream was over. I was right back where I started the year before - only I owed a lot more in taxes and still had past debts to take care of.

I was at a dead end. I needed a plan.

Turn around. Go back to McDonald's. Start looking for something again. Sending resume's. Spend all day on the internet searching for opportunity. Reaching out to people. Stick to a routine. Wake at the same time. Do the same things I did the last time I was in this shape.

Pray.

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My name is Paul and I’m the owner of this blog.

The picture of me above was taken by a very famous photographer who has also photographed Presidents of the United States, numerous celebrity actors and various sports professionals, as well as other business professionals like myself.

I was supposed to have a feature article written about what a great marketing professional I was in GQ Magazine, or Fortune Magazine, or Forbes, or Playboy … one of those … but then, things went sideways.

Really sideways.

The article was never written, the photo was never used anywhere, I was fired from the job that made that photo possible, I lost my home and ended up traveling all over in my pick-up truck (known as Unit #4)  and staying in various Wal-Mart parking lots (what I like to call the Wal-Mart Condo Association) for 2 years.

In the meantime, I’ve done everything. I’ve been a partner in the largest nightclub in SWFL, written songs with Grammy Winners in the Songwriter Hall of Fame, started as a public relations grunt and worked my way to Chief Marketing Officer of a restaurant group, and much, much, much more and many things.

It’s been a crazy life – with highs and lows not experienced by anyone who ever “played it safe” — but I was born to live, and so, that’s what’s I’ve done. These are just some of those (all true 100%) stories.

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